will u let it go when u realise something is wrong
2008-3-27 17:57:00
| My friend told me one thing this afternoon,he felt some thing wrong about his relationship,but can not sure what exactly it is,but he suddently realised he has already offered so much into this relationship,he can not think about something may be wrong,but, here, notice, what if that is a sign for him to stop? this is no less complicated,on the one hand,we think it is not worthy if we just let it go since we have already put so much into it,on the other hand,that may be not worthy for us to go forward,that is sign for us to stop cuz somehow we r not happy enough,so if we stop now,we can prevent some bad things happen to us later. this is complicated,i concede that most of us r so sensible when handling ths business in our daily life,but when it comes to the relationship issue, we r just confused,suddently become to a kid,become the one who follows our intuition,this is the way most of us are acting.we act depending on our feeling,we do what make us happy.maybe we can not endure so many things in the relationship since we r selfish,maybe just we wanna protect ourselves from hurting.hurting in heart is so painful. Still the question: can u distinguish that is a sign for u?then u can move on or trap deeper? |
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2008-4-2 18:36:17
 sunshine without shades,pleasure without pain ,is not life at all.insisting or giving up are choosed by ourself ,so i want to say no matter the result is bad or good ,we should learn to endure or enjoy may be ,something we can let it go 以下为blog主人的回复： yes,we have to learn to let it go,and this is the life,be cool to everything,maybe set a barrier to something in case of getting hurt. |
