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[ 2007-6-27 13:18:00 | By: holly ] |
A friend said to me, “He looks quite nice, but frankly speaking, I think you can not control him.” He had just browsed my net album, and taken a boy for my boyfriend, I guessed.
His words make me think about my whole life. No matter when, no matter who, I think I can never control a man, if only I am not controlled and don’t lose my selfhood. It has something to do with one’s character.
I am not a great people. But why should I take control of somebody? Aren’t people all born equal?
I know what he meant is that, the boy is really handsome, and he might be pursued by many beautiful girls. Perhaps I should say, just as well he is not my boyfriend, shouldn’t I? The point is, even when my boyfriend is not a handsome man, I still cannot control him. If I can, I may be much happier. However, I may not because when I control someone, I would feel empty and bored.
How can both be happy? Respect each other, consider for each other, and miss each other. Those are enough.
Seems a little feigned. So you may think I am comforting myself, and I don’t care.… |
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[ 2008-12-2 15:56:24 | By: huanyingxiaoruo(游客) ] |
 in this world,nobody can control other以下为blog主人的回复：
hehe
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[ 2008-1-11 21:56:14 | By: gsh123(游客) ] |
it is a society question .以下为blog主人的回复：  yeah?!
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[ 2008-1-7 0:24:03 | By: Anchorless Camel(游客) ] |
hi miss,
your problem is what i've ever had when i was young. i think you can make it easy.just ask yourself a question-
what do you want to acquire from your boyfriend? love or the feeling of getting him under your control? what is the real love? at least it won't be controling. the two lovers should put each other on same position. that is what you respect to yourself and the love you two have. be thankful for every moment you two stay and give each other.that's enough.
one reason of managing to control another is to hope the love forever. at least it was one of my reasons. but what's the forever? forever is the future things which no bady could know and tell us. and no one could insure the loveship we are having will be forever. if it passes, that will be a memory. what do you want the memory to be? advice: put it to be a nice period of memory in your life. don't try to control each other. space, trust and freedom are necessary for a relationship.以下为blog主人的回复： May i know whether you are Mr. or Ms?  And thanks for your suggestion. I was really confused about the relationship with my boyfriend.
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[ 2007-12-22 10:35:51 | By: 麦迪(游客) ] |
don't think that control someone in your life ,or you will lose him or them.i always say to myself ,haha.以下为blog主人的回复： OK.I will also say that to myeself. 
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[ 2007-12-9 19:12:54 | By: tang(游客) ] |
to oters exerting pressure equivalent to the pressure of its own以下为blog主人的回复： 
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[ 2007-12-9 15:40:09 | By: here(游客) ] |
第一次看到click20是一个偶然的机会，在此之前，我只听说可以靠网上赚钱，但我没有成功过。当时抱着试试看的心理参与了免费体验型，心想不知道真的假的，体验一下吧。在完成对10个广告主的点击后我的20click帐户中就出现了5元点击奖金，于是我立即申请提现到我的支付宝帐户，也很快的完成了，从此我相信原来真的是可以靠点击广告，看广告赚钱。
于是我参与了更多的点击方案，也推荐了很多朋友加入，在这里我想说，推荐朋友加入实在太简单了，想想，你要送钱给朋友花难道朋友还不愿意吗，我非常满足，唯一有些遗憾的是有些高奖金的点击方案不是很容易申请，大概名额有限吧，要是名额再多些就好了。
可以透露给大家我每周的收入差不多300元左右，不是太多，但向我这样一个小城市的学生来说实在太开心了。
为什么我要把我的成功故事说给大家听呢，因为我希望成为你的推荐人，那样如果你在赚钱过程中有什么不明白的地方我会第一时间给你帮助与解答，难道你不需要吗？当然你也可以直接按这个连接去注册:)
http://www.20click.com/cn/index.php?u=jingjingde
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[ 2007-12-1 15:36:17 | By: lsq(游客) ] |
i don't think you should control somebody以下为blog主人的回复：
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[ 2007-11-28 17:48:21 | By: SHALI(游客) ] |
it is right .we must have the freedom.or we may be live so tired. we have much things to do in my life . we need a litte space to each other . only care each other , consider each other ,respect each other .it is enouht.
in this ,you can feel happiess in your life.we can not to control to him . |
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[ 2007-11-24 8:39:57 | By: LenteL(游客) ] |
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[ 2007-11-24 8:35:24 | By: spring(游客) ] |
control someone in a short time? do you feel happy really?以下为blog主人的回复： I don't know because i have never tried it. hehe
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[ 2007-11-17 15:48:30 | By: fail(游客) ] |
| good...... 以下为blog主人的回复：
thank you!
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[ 2007-11-12 23:02:15 | By: robin(游客) ] |
i think you are right !also control one man ,he lose freedom,you lose happiness !以下为blog主人的回复： wonderful!
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[ 2007-11-9 15:50:02 | By: 楠木(游客) ] |
people is relative ,only you respect him ,he can respect
you .each person has freedom that belongs to himself or herself.when you control him, you also lose your
freedom .以下为blog主人的回复：
yes.
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[ 2007-11-9 14:25:39 | By: stanley(游客) ] |
i am so happy to see you answer my quetion.it is the second year that i stay in university.but i feel that if i do not work hard maybe i will be umemployed when i graduated .so i have to do something to improve myself in every aspect and get certificates as many as i can.i want to know which university you stayed if you will to tell .
now i am in southwest university political and law.以下为blog主人的回复：
i studied at WHUT.
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[ 2007-11-7 21:05:00 | By: stanley(游客) ] |
| in my opinion,love is that the two respect each other,feel each,and consider for each other,not that control each other. nobody feel happy and comfortable that contorl by others. by the way ,your english is so well,and how often do you update your blog? i want to feel something from your heart,and the improve my english.hehe,maybe i am selfish. i am sorry!best wishes! 以下为blog主人的回复：
When i am at the university, i updated my blog every day. For i have nothing to do but imagining. Now, i don't have much spare time and i don't have my own computer to update my blog...so, i can't tell the frequency of the update.
It is Ok for your question. i am glad to hear that.
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[ 2007-11-6 10:16:43 | By: muzizhang(游客) ] |
we always want to control others,but maybe somebody want to control us at same time.
so the only thing we can do is that to be the best one we can do!以下为blog主人的回复：
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[ 2007-10-25 10:31:44 | By: Jean(游客) ] |
people who make friends should respect each other, consider for each other, miss each other,and that they will be happy. don't try to control someone.以下为blog主人的回复： i will never try to control somebody. thanks for you comment. 
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[ 2007-9-30 11:49:34 | By: me(游客) ] |
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[ 2007-9-24 10:55:38 | By: momo(游客) ] |
| maybe,try to control somebody is not a good way to ask him to be your boyfriend! |
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[ 2007-9-6 15:29:13 | By: sky(游客) ] |
hi,i`m a guest ,but i want to see ,in the feeling world,
i control myself only,because every needs love,reverence......以下为blog主人的回复：
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[ 2007-8-24 14:01:37 | By: jenny82(游客) ] |
| 可是别人想控制你啊!这种完美的理想单方面是不可能实现的。要不是你被他人所控制，要不是他人被你控制。 以下为blog主人的回复：
in fact, what i want to express, is an ideal just as you said.
however for the moment, nobody want to control me. they respect me very well.so i think there is possibility that the ideal comes true.
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[ 2007-8-12 14:22:27 | By: 拉拉。。(游客) ] |
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[ 2007-8-12 14:09:59 | By: 拉拉。(游客) ] |
| 好好哦 好强啊 |
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[ 2007-8-12 1:27:36 | By: guo jiang(游客) ] |
i come here again,i can't impress my idea,because i lost her,i want cry,but i can't,i said to myself,i will do the things that i want but useful for somebody,god can't control us either,we are the tryly god,we have our life,we use our head and be the best animal around the world,in the love we just make friends with each other,we needn't control someone,you can control someone for a short time,but how long can you do like that,i don't thing so以下为blog主人的回复： wish you good luck!
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[ 2007-8-8 15:43:31 | By: skywangjian ] |
| handsome boy is more difficult to control , so is beautiful qirl , because many people will ply with he or her 以下为blog主人的回复：
hehe. that's right to some extend.
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[ 2007-8-4 20:42:01 | By: liuxin(游客) ] |
| why do people want to control someone,it is very tired. 以下为blog主人的回复：
yeah, why?
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[ 2007-7-30 8:32:46 | By: xiney(游客) ] |
all the people are equal,you can't control everyone.以下为blog主人的回复：
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[ 2007-7-26 23:31:32 | By: guo jiang(游客) ] |
| maybe you can control him,but you can't control his heart or the else important,so we should respect for each other,and then you will find that you are really control his heart,because at that time he should tell what he think is important but he only want to tell you,it is so great,wonderful future will be come. 以下为blog主人的回复：
yes!
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| I think you can not control him |
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[ 2007-7-22 12:48:49 | By: I think you can not(游客) ] |
i think you are right.we can not control anyone.of course we need not control anyone.no matter when, no matter who, i think we can never control a man, if only you are not controlled and don’t lose your selfhood. it has something to do with one’s character.
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[ 2007-7-20 10:59:33 | By: Eric(游客) ] |
| i like it. so wonderful... 以下为blog主人的回复：
anything else?
how about answering my question"why?"
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| 看了文章,真的很感动! |
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[ 2007-6-30 4:07:45 | By: oirtyt(游客) ] |
看了文章,真的很感动!
写的真好啊.. |
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| 第一次听的时候就觉得非常有感觉 |
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[ 2007-6-29 7:05:11 | By: GOOByg(游客) ] |
第一次听的时候就觉得非常有感觉
窃以为制作者一定是知道玩家读进度时候等待时间过于漫长
于是用这首歌作为补偿。
有谁知道里面到底用的是哪国语言么？
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好好看啊哈哈。。。。